i'm a person whose wiring prevents her from going against the norm; if i see something become ridiculously popular i'm immediately wary of it, setting ridiculous standards for that "it" thing to pass.     i know that it's not a healthy way to go about things but it really is worth it most of the time.  if that particular thing does pass said standards then i'm a pleasantly surprised happy camper (hey, that's what happened in lord of the rings trilogy).     if people expect me to like something, chances are i'd end up hating it.  and vice…