A long lost relative paid us a visit recently, a lola of mine by virtue of her marriage to my paternal lolo’s younger brother. I haven’t seen her in a long time--in at least five years, I think, and I was all sorts of delighted to hear that she was going to come over, even just for a day. Although I’m sure that my parents tried to get out of it--it was a weekend and I know that they weren’t in the mood to entertain, haha. With this particular lola being of a particular age and having just recovered from…