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unravelling the thoughts of an emotional blockhead

Will update post later.  I hope.  Must. Have. Sleep. 🙂

(A few hours later.) So I saw this quiz on a friend’s Multiply site so I decided to try one.  Gotten from Handwriting Wizard.com.  There’re quite a few misses but mostly still on the dot. 😀  I’m still trying to figure out if i did have some kind of childhood trauma or not though.

Official Handwriting Analysis – Personality Report

This personality profile is based on the writing of Girlie R. created at the website: Handwriting Wizard.com – Handwriting University’s Official automated personality report creator based on standardized basic personality traits as taught through Handwriting University’s Certification Level Program.

 Most people with a severe leftward slant have some type of childhood trauma they have yet to work through. Since we didn’t actually “see the writing”, we can’t tell if she actually has a hard left emotional slant, but if so… she has issues with trust and it is likely rooted in childhood.

Girlie has withdrawn into herself. She is reserved and shows her feelings only at times of great anger, extreme passion, or tremendous stress. Girlie is an introvert. She makes decisions based on logic, therefore she is rarely impulsive. She doesn’t find any need for expressing her emotions. In fact, she probably sees this emotional expression as an unnecessary waste of time. She has a hard time relating to an extreme extrovert, although it is common for her to be attracted to one. Many people do not understand Girlie; it is difficult for them to really know how Girlie feels. Girlie enjoys being alone, and probably prefers working alone. Working with her hands is a pleasure.

Girlie’s basic nature is to look out for herself first. Although she can and does feel emotions, perhaps as deeply as anyone, she just almost always harbors them inside.

The first time someone angers Girlie, she probably will not say anything to that person at that time. However, she will mentally keep track of everything this person does wrong to her until she cannot hold her emotions inside any longer. Then; Boom! Girlie will cloud up and rain all over them. And she will never regret telling someone off, because she knew what she was saying the entire time. She won’t impulsively tell someone off.

Emotional stories will not sway Girlie. She thinks totally with judgment, first considering every situation by the effect it will have on her.

Girlie needs space and time alone. She will be much more efficient if given a job alone, rather than being surrounded by people.

 Girlie tends to write a bit smaller than the average person. When a person’s letters are small and tiny, this indicates an ability to focus and concentrate. This character trait is a huge asset in careers like math, science, race car driving, and flying planes. However, if Girlie writes tiny all of the time, she will also display characteristics of someone who is socially introverted. Girlie will often sit on the sideline and watch others get the attention at parties. she might be willing to open up and be warm, but only in small groups or a select group of people. When she is busy working on a project, it is common for all other noises and distractions to just fade away and her ability to focus is incredible. When she says “she didn’t hear you”, she really means, she didn’t hear you.

 Girlie is sensitive to criticism about her ideas and philosophies. She will sometimes worry what people will think if she tells them what she believes in. This doesn’t mean she won’t talk, or that she feels ashamed. It merely means she is sensitive to what others think, regarding her beliefs.

 Girlie is secretive. She has secrets which she does not wish to share with others. She intentionally conceals things about herself. She has a private side that she intends to keep that way, especially concerning certain events in her past.

 Girlie can be defiant. She sometimes has the attitude that if someone doesn’t like it the way she is doing it, then they can just “go to hell!” This trait may reveal itself in a rebellious nature that is always ready to resist forces which she thinks are infringing upon her freedom of action.

 Girlie is a cumulative and procedural thinker. She likes to have all the facts before making a decision. She thinks or creates much like a brick mason, stacking fact upon fact. Her thought pattern or the conclusion will not be complete until the last fact is in place. Like that brick wall, Girlie learns faster through visual demonstration than through quick verbal instructions. Once she has learned new material, and understood it, she won’t forget.

Girlie is a methodical thinker, therefore she is able to build things and come up with new ideas. In an argument, she often loses to rapid thinking people because she is thinking thirty minutes later about what she should have said. These people often are very booksmart, but can be out-gunned in a rapid fire verbal debate.

She may learn new ideas at a slower pace than other “less detailed” people, but once she gets it, she can handle repetition. Some people hate jobs with too much repetition, she can handle it better than most.

 Girlie’s true self-image is unreasonably low. Someone once told Girlie that she wasn’t a great and beautiful person, and she believed them. Girlie also has a fear that she might fail if she takes large risks. Therefore she resists setting her goals too high, risking failure. She doesn’t have the internal confidence that frees her to take risks and chance failure. Girlie is capable of accomplishing much more than she is presently achieving. All this relates to her self-esteem. Girlie’s self-concept is artificially low. Girlie will stay in a bad situation much too long… why? Because she is afraid that if she makes a change, it might get worse. It is hard for Girlie to plan too far into the future. She kind of takes things on a day to day basis. She may tell you her dreams but she is living in today, with a fear of making a change. No matter how loud she speaks, look at her actions. This is perhaps the biggest single barrier to happiness people not believing in and loving themselves. Girlie is an example of someone living with a low self-image, because their innate self-confidence was broken.

 Girlie is sarcastic. This is a defense mechanism designed to protect her ego when she feels hurt. She pokes people harder than she gets poked. These sarcastic remarks can be very funny. They can also be harsh, bitter, and caustic at the same time.

 Girlie has a tendency to put things off, Girlie procrastinates. She sometimes pretends to be busy, so she will not have to do whatever she is putting off. She is often late to appointments or deadlines. This usually leads to a great amount of effort at the last minute to meet the deadline. Procrastination is an important factor as it relates to her output on the job or at school. Remember, Girlie will put it off until later. Procrastination is easily overcome through a simple stroke adjustment in the handwriting.

 Girlie has a healthy imagination and displays a fair amount of trust. She lets new people into her circle of friends. She uses her imagination to understand new ideas, things, and people.

 Girlie exaggerates about everything that has a physical nature. Although she may not intend to deceive or mislead, she blows things way out of proportion because that is the way she views them. She will be a good story teller. This exaggeration relates to all areas of her material world. Girlie allows many people into her life because she is accepting and trusting. She is sometimes called gullible by her friends. That only really means that she trusts too many people. Girlie has a vivid imagination.

 For a graphologist, the spacing on the page reflects the writer’s attitude toward their own world and relationship to things in his or her own space. If the inputted data was correct Girlie has no white space or margins on a typical sheet of paper. Girlie fills up every last inch on the top, right, left, and bottom. Hmmm. If this is true, then Girlie has a very aggressive personality toward others and quite frankly lacks a bit of respect for the space and property of other people. I would be surprised if Girlie just comes into someone’s home and helps herself to a drink in the refrigerator. This can be both an obnoxious personality trait and it can be assertive and effective in getting what you want. There isn’t much fear of getting in trouble here, Girlie finds plenty of reasons to break the rules and get in trouble. (Okay, perhaps when she was younger, not anymore?) Basically, people with no margins are a handful.

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